Threesoms

My partner, for the sake of this blog we'll call him Tom*, has this idea that if we we're to bring another person into bed with us there would be problems afterwards.

My main fear - What if he realises I'm not who he want's to be with and takes off with our partner!

But, I still find myself checking out the competition. In clubs I have thoughts of walking up to the girl eyeing him off and saying, you can have him tonight, but we're a package and I'm the main event. I wonder how these dolled up girls would react, they aren't the obvious sluts out for a root and boot, they look like your hot girl next door types and that really gets me going.

Recently I made friends with a local stripper, and hell I have typed out that message a hundred times. "Tonight come meet us in the hotel room, bring your outfits we're going to have some fun." And the thing is, I think she'd be up for it too. She's not too interested in boys that look like Tom*, but we flirt a lot and I've tried to get him to come to the club she works at with me.. he won't bite. =[

Mutual friends look like a go too, some of them I know are into that sort of kink, but I don't think the girls are up for some girl on girl action and that's a deal breaker.

Am I a hypocrite for wanting to get some girl action in front of my man, but not wanting him to service them?

My rules would be strict no fucking or servicing her, but I'd love to watch a girl blowing him, maybe I'd get some hot tips? I wonder if he would like to see me getting it on with another woman? Something I've asked many times with no answer..

If you have any tips on how to go about getting a partner and getting him to agree to get into bed with us, your advice will be heard with open ears!!!!

Much Love

-Bambii xoxo